First I need to say something about the "death cake." When a new missionary comes out, he/she is "born" and has a mother/father as a trainer. When he/she goes home, he/she "dies." Yeah, kind of gruesome, but they like to think of it like that. Anyway, one of the sisters is headed home Monday and the companionship that lives with her decorated the cake. I think it is very clever.
On Sunday the 24th we had our usual meetings. Good talks in sacrament meeting on the Atonement. The 2nd counselor and his wife talked since they are leaving for Texas this week to go to school. Also, Bro. Paries, the 1st counselor, got called to be on the stake high council, so both counselors will need replaced. Tyrei came home with us because he wanted to go to the stake priesthood meeting, so we had breakfast, napped, then E. Steffler and Tyrei went to church to carpool. The meeting was in New Bern (this is a large stake area) which is about 45 min. drive. Their meeting was on missionary work (good topic!). Had several elders there showing the brethren what is involved in a discussion. E. Steffler said it was very informative. He didn't get home until 10. I stayed home alone – very weird! But I kept busy with arbitrating, writing my blog, talking to Lena (who was scheduled for back surgery Thurs.) and facebooked. I didn't get her text asking us to fast with her and I felt badly about that. The YSA sisters stopped by for a quick correlation meeting to ask us to teach Brianna tithing on Tues. Gave them a loaf of bread to "share" with roommates.
Monday did some laundry then headed to Stevon's to put a serpentine belt on his car. Had to borrow a 3/8-inch drive flexhead ratchet (E. Steffler helped me with that!) then was able to replace old with new. Took a few minutes and a scuffed knuckle, but got 'er done! Showed Stevon the hidden tool box in back of his car. It had a lug wrench but no jack. He was pleased to know about it. Got hair cuts, both of us, and I look butchered! But I like short hair, so it is ok. We were to pick up Kierra for FHE, but could not find her; went to get Tyrei, he was not home. (Frustration!) He was at his friend's house across the road and had just gotten back from Dollar General (local dollar store) so it was good that we were late. Had a nice turn out to play Ultimate Frisbee, about 30 youth. Everyone was suppose to make cards for the leaving counselors, so we had the sisters add us to their card. After cookies and Krispy Kremes, we took Tyrei home and went by Kierra's house again – still not home. E. Steffler wanted to give her a blessing before she left for Job Corps in the morning. Found out later that she was shopping with her mom to buy things she would need, so that was all right.
Water was cold Tuesday – that's what happens when the days are cooler. Hot tub felt good. Went to Stevon's again. He had just returned from getting his permit to drive, so he drove his car to the tire shop to have the new tires put on. Then had appointment with Brianna to teach her tithing. The sisters had given her the pamphlet and she had read it and underlined and read all the scriptures, so basically we bore testimony of its importance and E. Steffler told a couple of stories about tithing. Where she is living is set back off the road and down a little windy road, so we were a little frustrated trying to find it. But we did and we were glad. She lives with her cousin and husband and helps tend their autistic child. Made zucchini bread and au gratin potatoes for supper. E. Steffler grilled steaks. Had a correlation meeting and told sisters we would pick them up, but they were walking on Charles Ave., about 2 1/2 miles away. Where they were walking does not have a place to pull off the road, so we waited until they got to the mall; their feet were tired! Had two brothers and a sister to supper. The sister is a member who had gone to Palmyra, so we had her tell about it and then gave the Book of Mormon picture approach and asked both brothers to give one away and they both knew who they wanted to give it to! Got a text from Kierra – she had made it to Job Corps.
Wednesday was cooler for our walk. Understand, cooler temp, not lower humidity! G2 sisters practiced lesson on prophets. Christ was a prophet! Had leftovers warmed up from last night. They brought us a yummy treat: pretzel with Rollo and pecan all smashed together. A trip to Sam's Club for groceries. Had a slower day sandwiched between two busy ones. Received our bed bug protector sheets in the mail; now to get them on the bed. Ed worked a miracle on the computer so we can get emails that are not "corrupted." Thanks, Ed! Printed off one of Kim's emails on church history – it was 28 pages long!
Thursday we had our reading with a member and took her a Book of Mormon that she wanted to give to the next door pastor. Also a talk by Elder Richard G. Scott on scriptures. Had a good discussion with her (all the boys were in school) and we talked about some of 2 Nephi. At home I baked a cake for supper and E. Steffler got the chicken cooked and shredded for the enchiladas which I put together. Covered with foil and put in the frig because we took the YSA sisters to a member's home to give a discussion. It was in Farmville, and yes, it is out in the middle of farm ground. She talked about Palmyra, the sisters talked about the Restoration and we gave the BOM pictures. When we were finished she had thought of someone to give the BOM to! Revelation! On the way back to the apt., we saw one of the cut-down buses that hauls tobacco. Sis. Jensen got a picture of it going away from us; not a very good photo, so we are going to keep our eyes out for another opportunity for a better pic. Had a brother and two sisters for supper. The sisters really are sisters, but not related to the brother. They had a good time talking about Palmyra and BOM after the meal. He had someone in mind to give the BOM to! What a blessed week we have had.
Friday had a good zone meeting, emphasis on asking baptismal question on first discussion and to ask less active people to active members' homes for lessons. E. Steffler and I got to role play as investigators; it was fun and the missionaries are so sharp they can give an answer to any question you throw at them. Then companionships practiced. An elder took on E. Steffler's question about a woman he knew in South Africa with an open sore on her face and that she could not be baptized because of it. The elder answered exactly like he had done 50 years ago: gave her a blessing that she could be baptized and she was and all was well. A surgeon later was able to reconstruct her face; she had been disfigured since she was 16 and she was then 64. The Holy Ghost works the same no matter what part of the world you are in. Got a letter in the mail from DJ and all the kids. THANK YOU! We are like missionaries everywhere – we like mail. Thanks for the ordinance cards, Sher.
Nice walk on Saturday – only 88 % humidity. I made bread before showering and getting dressed. Slow day of missionary work. But we read and studied. Got through D&C 84, long but beautiful section on Priesthood. Made a batch of cookies for the evening. Then arbitrated a batch of Idaho obits from the Idaho Press-Tribune! 2012, so after I quit the paper. Printed and read Brad Wilcox's Saving Grace. It is a wonderful talk. YSA sisters came over to decorate the cake into a death cake. Transfer calls came; just about every companionship is getting moved around. It is going to be a sorrowful day on Thursday, but an exciting one, also. Sis. Jensen will be a trainer and has already asked if we could be practice investigators (which also includes lunch). Had Spanish elders for supper of BBQ chix, corn on the cob, baked potato, fresh bread and strawberry jam (also honey butter) and fresh fruit. Cookies for dessert. They shared their mission scriptures that are one their plaques. They had done service basically all day; glad we could feed them.
There is still one companionship of elders we have not fed and we want to do that Monday evening since we don't have FHE. Because it will be split up, too. Wow, what a wonderful week! I feel like we are finally becoming missionaries. It has only taken us almost 6 months to get this far! Lena had her surgery Thursday and we have talked to her a couple of times and is coming along. She will need everyone's prayers, please. We love all of our family and ward family and extended family. We pray for you that you will feel the Spirit and want to align your lives with God's life. It really is the only gift we can give him: obedience. God bless, E. Steffler and Sister Steffler