Dec. 28

Christmas is a memory and soon 2014 will be a memory, too. Hope everyone had a great Christmas and spent time with family.

Last Sunday we went to church in Kinston then to dinner at Bro. Walker's and family; about 22 ate at his table. He figures if he is going to cook, he is going to feed a bunch. And it isn't chicken! Steak, potatoes, 2 kinds of beans, corn, rolls and a table full of desserts. Oh, yeah, he knows how to feed people. Then we took a plateful of cookies to Bradley (missed him by 5 min.) and Jacob (would not commit to coming to church). Saw quite a bit of country driving to their houses. We were reading in the Book of Mormon, enjoying a quiet evening, when the YSA elders dropped in to set up Skype on our computer for their Christmas chat. I printed off 3 recipes for bread in a bread machine so the G1 elders can make bread (I think it is E. Ferguson who likes the bread).

Monday was pouring rain, so another work-out day instead of walking. Did some laundry then took Kierra's package to the post office to be mailed for the third time! First two to the Job Corps, then found out she no longer is going there and finally sent it to her mother's in Georgia where she is staying. Filled up the car for $2.32/gal then went to Pres. Lewis' to watch BYU get beat by Miami in second overtime. A few YSA showed up (it was FHE activity) and ate sandwiches, chips, sodas and cookies. E. Steffler sat and watched the entire football games; I started on a crossword puzzle. Didn't realize how much I missed doing them. Popped corn for supper and watched Mr. Krueger's Christmas.

Tuesday walked one circuit of the complex then got ready for the Christmas Conference in Kinston with Pres. and Sis. Baker and missionaries from both zones in North Carolina. Watched Polar Express then had a lovely dinner, catered by the Howards. While the missionaries went into the chapel for the devotional, the two senior couples set out the bags full of goodies for the missionaries. Then they could add a Cutie and sweet bread, plus cookie from the Bakers. There was a box of mail that we spread over the tables so they could find them: letters from home sent special for the missionaries to get at this conference. Pres. Hancock talked on how we will always remember this Christmas because we are serving the Lord. He told the story about Helen Keller visiting SLC and going to performance of MoTab. She wanted to "listen" to the organ with her hands (for those that don't remember her, she was blind and deaf). What a story! Pres. Baker told about how they received their call to be mission president. Then he did a beautiful thing; he pronounced a blessing over all the missionaries; promised blessings to us and our family for our service. We left asap because we had an appointment at the Raleigh Temple at 6. Wonderful place to be after such an inspirational conference. Drove home in pouring rain; E. Steffler had to slow down to 35 a few times because he could not see. Yet, cars were passing us! Still made it home by 10.

Christmas Eve: rain, not as pouring as last night. G1 elders canceled their practice lesson because one of them was sick. So we went grocery shopping before it got too crazy. Had taco salad for lunch then went to the movie, National Museum, like the third one, ho hum. G1 sisters came bearing gifts: we didn't realize we would get something at the Christmas party yesterday and left for the temple without checking. Letters from DJ, Eliza and Lena and their families. Very sweet; Lena's made me cry. There were even two cookies from the Bakers. Sis. Bunker gave us a Christmas idea book and wrote a lovely little story for us that we will cherish. G2 sisters brought us a plate cookies so invited them to sit and chat and the G1 sisters came (again), so I popped some corn and we watched Mr. Krueger's Christmas – again. It was so fun. Sis. Bunker worried that they were invading us, but we loved it. I'm glad they feel safe here.

Merry Christmas! Slept in and did not exercise. Took a day off! Made breakfast for the YSA elders then they each skyped with their families. We drove out to see Joanna and see their Christmas; Mike was there and the twins were rowdy. She sent us home with cookie/candy treats, which were gone before we got home! Made a batch of blackberry jam (berries were 3/$5 so bought 6). Napped and read all afternoon then made an apple cobbler to take to the Lewis' for dinner. She had roasted an entire beef tenderloin and it was delicious! They gave us a burlap bag full of goodies and a pedometer! Now we can count steps and see how close we come to the 10,000 steps that is suggested. The G1 sisters appeared; Sis. Fife wanted to hear Pentatonix sing Mary Did You Know (in a cave) then started to watch Joseph Smith Prophet of the Restoration. I had saved it on facebook. Snow in Idaho; they had a white Christmas – we had rain and in the 60s!

Friday we walked 1 3/4 miles at the senior center; about 3700 steps, so we need to walk about 5 miles to get the 10,000 steps! Ended up with 4900 for the day because we shopped at Sam's Club. District meeting, E. Coy's last; we take him to mission home Monday. Several gave 5-minute talks on faith. I had one ready just in case and E. Steffler had thought about what to say. E. Bauman said we all have a favorite "stick" that we bring with us on our missions and at some point we are asked to put it down and leave it behind. Sis Bunker left the room in tears. Found out later that her family has essentially cut her out of the family. She just needs time to grieve. G1 sisters came over for supper and a blessing. Tried to do a Hang Out with family, but I'm technically challenged so it took a while to connect, then the ones who knew what to do, left for a movie so that left us with iphones, which one of the 4 year olds took and tried to take pictures of cousins. So that was the end of that! YSA elders came over with their USBs to copy some files and download some of theirs onto our computer. Lots of reading to do now!

Saturday, another workout day. Did a couple of batches of laundry before taking the YSA elders to Havelock to try to find young adults to come to Greenville once a month. Didn't have much luck. Most were not home. The funniest thing was watching E. Bauman calling the ducks; he had names for several of them. He had served in Havelock several months ago and still knew all the names and ducky noises. We had supper at Crabby Patty's (hence the photo) and the food was pretty good. Got home about 8 p.m.

So, quite a week; not much missionary teaching going on, but enjoyable. I love spending time with the missionaries. Not too many branch members around this week. The highlight was the temple and Christmas Conference on Tuesday. It was nice talking to some of the family members and the letters were wonderful. I love letters. (hint) Hope y'all have your New Year's resolutions lined up and that one of them is to communicate with your parents – both heavenly and earthly! We love all y'all and wish for a bright new year. Love, Elder & Sister Steffler

Duck calling

Elder Bauman saying farewell to friends.

Dec. 21

I thought this week would be slow and boring; no so. Many blessings and challenges, though.

No branch council so all who wanted to could go to a branch member's farewell in her home ward. She is so excited to go! Her mission is to Sacramento California Mission. Then we had our own meetings; good talks by the Dawson sisters and ward mission leader, Taylor Given. Gospel doctrine was the same Ezekiel lesson that was taught 2 weeks ago in the 1st ward. I know doubly about the water coming out from the temple that will heal the Dead Sea. Had the Savior's birth in Relief Society. Invited the YSA elders to dinner since they didn't have a dinner appointment. Had breakfast for dinner, then went with them to teach Brittany. She is so ready for baptism – gave all the right answers to the questions on prayer, reading and chastity. Brittany cracked us up with her response to chastity: I'm glad my boyfriend and I just play cards! Then finished all my Christmas cards to the branch members. I have never written so many cards in my life. Even wrote a couple to inactives and invited them to come to branch activities. Told YSA elders we would take them to Havelock so E. Bauman could talk to some YSA members and see former members.

Monday got to exercise again! Three days without is way too long! Walked on the Sr. Center path. Went to member's house where we fixed the yard art and thought it looked good and took a picture. She was pretty excited how it turned out. After cleaning apartment, we went to Post Office to buy stamps and mail all the cards. In line for about 30 minutes (maybe not quite that long, but it seemed like it!) then they were out of holiday stamps. So bought some red hearts and fireworks. Deserved a burger and fries after that, but maybe not the yogurt at Sweet Frog, but it was good! Decided to make pumpkin cookies to use up the pumpkin in the fridge. Looked at my phone and Tyrei needed a ride to FHE; barely got the cookies baked before we had to leave. Missionary correlation at 6:30 and FHE at 7. Had Jet's pizza – chicken with BBQ sauce, yummy. Played Sardines, then volleyball. Home by 10.

Tuesday we walked the path behind the park, about one mile each way (no side trips or short cuts!). Finished the pumpkin with mini loaves and one large loaf then made banana chocolate chip cookies to use up the over ripe bananas. Sister missionaries borrowed the air mattresses for exchanges with sister trainers; Sis. Whetten finally got x-rays of her back, plus another car. Gave them a plate of cookies and loaf of bread, because they had to feed two extra. Delivered mini loaves and plates of cookies to 8 branch members. Called Danny to see if he was home or work – neither; he and Emily were in Goldsboro looking at rings! I have not heard anything official yet, so keep it under your cap! Also took a nice plate to the office personnel at The Pointe here at Wimbledon. Had a nice chat with Eliza; all is well there. They spoke in sacrament meeting (both she and Bill spoke) and Lydia was home for the weekend. Took a plate of cookies to G1 elders and YSA elders (they all share an apartment) and got a bathroom scale in return (not the one that the training sisters borrowed, but it works).

Since it rained Tuesday, we walked on the Sr. Center path that is paved. Had a lesson practice with G1 elders on Plan of Salvation then fed them breakfast. Had two frying pans cooking pancakes and could barely keep up! Did I mention they are in a threesome and all three are over 6 feet tall? Delivered more cookies -- six more plates of cookies. Nearly got in a wreck going from Charles to Greenville Blvd. It is a free right-hand turn; no traffic on outside lane; inside lane bumper to bumper. A car on the inside lane decided it was too slow and pulled into the outside lane as we were pulling into the same lane. E. Steffler romped on the gas; we jumped 5 feet in a split second and avoided a collision. He had to stop and look to make sure there were no marks. There is no way we didn't get hit, except for the tender mercy of the Lord. E. Steffler informed me: NO MORE DRIVING DURING RUSH HOUR! It took a while for him to calm down. The traffic reminds me of Eagle Road in Meridian, only cars moving at 45-50 mph. Anyway, now we know where a few more members live. And lived to tell the tale! Watched the DVD we got at the Christmas exchange, "My Girl." I barely remembered it; not too bad.

Thursday we walked the path at the Sr. Center, again. Took copies of YW theme, D&C/church history DVD to Joanna's. I wanted to watch Prophet of the Restoration, but she was gung-ho on BOM, so we read about Moroni vs Amalickiah in Alma 49. She had two huge stuffed alligators on the couch that she had gotten at Sam's Club and had decided to return them to use the money to buy bunk beds for her twins. E. Steffler takes $50 from his wallet and gives it to her for the alligators; she was thrilled and said she would put our names on the tags. We had just gotten a check in the mail from one of our ward members and just paid it forward! Took the G1 sisters to visit Sweetie; they had prepared a lesson, but she wanted to read the Book of Mormon from the Book of Mormon. She had read it but didn't understand all of it, so we read it and discussed it with her. Made a double batch of oatmeal chocolate chip cookies when we got home; baked two pans and put the rest of the dough in the fridge. Watched videos on mormon.org and ordered flowers for the mission office and ordered 3 more copies of the DVD we had given to Joanna.

Friday had a quick walk around the apartment complex because we had District meeting. Lots of baptisms planned in the next month from all the missionaries. Talked about member involvement and going about doing good. I didn't understand how important member involvement was until we came on our mission; it is crucial to finding and retaining. Divided up more cookies for 5 more members. One recent convert came by to get his (he didn't want to inconvenience us) so we asked him to cook us a native meal on New Years Day: Peruvian. Have to find the international market for the right ingredients, but it should be very interesting! G1 sisters came by to ask a favor: they had gotten a key in their mailbox and could we go to the Post Office to get their package. I walked them out to the mailbox and showed them where the key fit in the package slot. They were amazed! Later they came again with some of their goodies they had received: gingerbread man kit and cupcake tins and cake mix. So helped decorate some gingerbread men and loaned them some oil to make the cake. The Pointe had a Mingle with baked potatoes, veggie & cheese platters and cookies and cheese cake bites. Pretty good! It was supper for us!

Saturday we tried out some of the new equipment that we saw got delivered yesterday: tread mills and bikes and free weights and weighted balls. We also worked out on the weight machine. We are starting off slowly because it has been so long since we have worked out; we could tell it, too! Picked up Joanna and went to the farmers market; not much there, a little disappointing. I really had my mouth set for more hot sweet dill pickles and salsa; nope, neither vendor was there. Did buy some more red potatoes and some not-so-sweet sweet potatoes. Filled up the car with gas for $2.35/gal! Had to buy a new electric toothbrush; E. Steffler tried to fix his and broke it instead! Also bought a $20 breakfast pastry tray – a definite no-no. At noon the district went caroling together and we shared some pastry. One of the elders knew the lady that ran My Sisters Attic, and she went around to all the other little shops asking if we could come caroling; they all were thrilled. One sister even said she was interested in learning more! We were not the best carolers I have heard, but we sang with gusto. After an hour, we had had enough, but the other missionaries continued on; don't know for how long. Made a batch of bread when we got home. Invited G1 sisters to have some, then took them to Robersonville to deliver cupcakes. We dropped off our cookies to Tyrei and another member that live out that way – both were home. The G1 sisters told us of a tender mercy. They were walking to the caroling and a car from Kinston stopped and asked if they needed a ride. The driver showed his temple recommend so the sisters knew they were okay! It really tickled them. I kind of got homesick in the afternoon after caroling. I guess the caroling reminded me of our family going caroling to neighbors for one of our traditions. Anyway, I went on an eating binge, but was rescued by the G1 sisters asking us to take them to Robersonville. Sometimes you think you are putting someone "out" when they really need the blessing.

I am trying harder to not get homesick. I started reading the Bible whenever I feel a little depressed. Read all of Isaiah and Jeremiah and have started on Ezekiel. I don't think I'll finish the Bible by the end of the year!

Hope y'all are ready for Christmas, because ready or not ... here it comes! We love you and miss you, but are enjoying the work here. We have mailed a lot of cards and delivered a lot of cookies. Now to stay busy until the students return. God bless you and if you have not seen He is the Gift, please log on to christmas.mormon.org for a lovely and poignant video. Elder and Sister Steffler

Gingerbread decorating

Elder Steffler even decorated a couple!

Yard art

Service project for a member.

Branch Christmas photo

A great bunch of members enjoyed a meal, gingerbread house making and gift exchange Dec. 8. In the photo with the YSA elders, their names are Elder Bauman and Elder Siddoway.

December 14

About the pic: Reminder to self – must stand up, not sit down, for photos in future! Taken Dec. 8 at YSA Christmas party.

 

Dec. 7, fast Sunday. Good branch council meeting (talked about what days we were having meetings, again) and fast and testimony meeting. Elder Steffler and I bore our testimonies, mostly about how thankful we are to be living in this country that was prepared for the restoration. Especially since we had visited Colonial Williamsburg and Jamestown. Went to gospel essentials class and had the YSA elders teach it; had 2 recent converts and 1 investigator. We were able to watch the Christmas devotional from facebook. It worked fine, where logging onto lds.org in the past we have frozen up. Excellent talks and wonderful music.

Monday we walked 2 miles behind the senior center; chilly with a breeze. We are used to walking after our "vacation" last week. Got the Christmas photos from Nate and family. Baked a batch of bread and invited the YSA elders to have fresh bread, then sent the rest of the loaf home with them. Mailed 25 Christmas cards and bought some groceries. We took squishy sand and an Indian beaded key chain to the gift exchange at FHE. Had a dinner catered by one of the families from 1st Ward whose daughter goes to the branch. Had a good turn out (food will do that, sometimes). Took photos and put together gingerbread houses. Elder Bauman and I managed to put one together that did not fall over (like a couple of others did). One of the members got the keychain who knows its value, because he is part Cherokee. We got a can of 3 kinds of popcorn and DVD of "My Girl" – the only thing I remember from that movie is when Jamie Lee Curtis tells the young girl that a girl can never wear too much blue eye shadow!

Tuesday we walked around the complex, breezy and cold. Worked on Restoration lesson. Got a call to rescue G2 sisters – the ones who got in a car wreck and are without a car. They were stranded at an investigator's home; could we pick them up and take them home? Of course! One of the sisters did not have a warm coat on and the other's back was hurting from the wreck. Then helped the YSA elders teach a potential, who was not at home and had given them a "no longer working" phone number. So visited a couple of brothers (members) who were very cordial about the drop-in visit. Had a lesson with an investigator – I know, how awesome is that! WE TAUGHT A LESSON! Actually, she almost asked us. We told her that if she ever wanted the lessons, we would be happy to teach her. And she called! We used the Restoration pamphlet to guide us through and a member was with us and added her testimony. She had already been reading Book of Mormon with a friend who is a member, so she is really ready to hear the gospel. She accepted the baptism challenge, but wanted to wait on a date. We were walking on air. Got to talk with Eliza while the rest of her family were at church; they are well.

Wednesday we walked the complex – again. Another chilly day; you think it might be winter? Decided to get the blackberry jam made from the 4 small boxes of blackberries that we bought Monday (on sale 2/$5). It only took 15 minutes, start to finish, and it is yummy. Had G1 elders for a practice lesson and lunch. We were investigators having the first discussion. E. Colliers (the new missionary) didn't say much, but did bear testimony a couple of times. Fed them cut up fresh fruit, hamburger stew and fresh bread and jam and honey butter. Then I brought out ice cream and brownies (left over from stake conference and in the freezer). After lunch, a nap, then made a pumpkin roll to take to institute. While it was cooling we filled the car with fuel and took our packages to mail to the kids. G1 sisters came to discus volunteer options to keep busy over the holidays. I made the cream cheese filling while we talked. The YSA elders asked us to go with them to visit a member's home before institute. They had a demo with cotton balls and alcohol to show how the spirit protects us; very visual! Institute met at the teacher's home; no lesson, just treats and Christmas story and talk. Started writing Christmas cards for branch members.

Thursday: Walked complex again – boring! Read BOM with our member and she remembered the story about the harlot Isabel, because her favorite grandmother's name was Isabel. That afternoon we took the G1 sisters to Stokes, about 20 miles out of town, very rural. Visited with 3 sweet sisters, 2 members and 1 investigator. One was black and loves to talk and tell everyone about what she has learned from the girls; one is inactive but still believes; one has 2 kids and is pregnant. Her boyfriend left her when she got baptized. Three very nice sisters who desperately need the gospel. Took the sisters to Noodles & Co., and I ordered something Asian and peanuty and very spicy hot. Got jackets that Lena had made for Pres. and Sis. Baker (mission president) and mailed. So we wrapped them up to take to Goldsboro on Friday to give to them.

Friday no exercise; on the road to Goldsboro at 8:30 for Christmas (zone) conference with the Bakers and Elder and Sister Snow of the 70. All the missionaries lined up and shook hands with all of them. The theme was Faith to Find. We are in the "hour" of our mission; listen to what the investigators are saying to you and address their needs. Use He is the Gift for finding. Had North Carolina BBQ (vinegar based) for lunch with coleslaw, potato salad and cake. Cake was good. Sister Snow led off the afternoon session (after photos of both zones were taken). Missions are learning to do hard things. Write in journal what I learned that day. Faith chases away Fear. Hymns increase and bless your life. Rejection teaches patience. Elder Snow did a great visual activity with chain of conversion. Find a way for less actives to serve. Chapter 4 PMG, power of Holy Ghost in our lives; talked about all his names and found scriptures that used his various names. Pres. Baker had volunteered us to be interviewed by Elder Snow after the conference. Nothing scary; just wanted to know how we were doing and if we were enjoying our mission. Of course! Gave the jacket present to Pres. Baker. After we got home, G1 sisters came over to discuss a yard art service we are working on together.

Saturday: no exercise again! On the road at 6 to be at a member's home who lives one hour away. Helped him with a yard sale. He had most of his items displayed in his yard when we got there. He lives at the end of a very rutty lane; has no running water; no gas for stove to cook; he does has electricity and an electric heater to warm the trailer. He made hot chocolate for us by warming up water on a hot plate. After half an hour we drove 3 miles down the road to buy breakfast and go to the bathroom. No one else had come so we decided to leave. I don't know how he thinks he can survive there. On our way back we stopped at a couple of stores to buy supplies for the yard art service. Met the sisters at the home with 3 boxes, plastic tablecloths, bows and ribbon and packaging tape. We decorated the boxes and pegged them down. The member was going to paint "Who is the Gift? Christ and mormon.org." Should make for an interesting yard art. E. Steffler and I were in jeans all day; really felt kind of weird! It has been a long time. I made bread and wrote some more Christmas cards; read through Plan of Salvation. Our investigator wants another lesson Sunday!

This brings us to end of another week. They seem to be flying by! Got photo cards from Nate and family and DJ and family; good to see the grandkids growing up. Lena sent a card along with the jackets, thanks again! I'm adding a scripture a day to the family photo tree; I'll have to take another photo to show you when the month is done. Don't get too stressed out over Christmas; relax and enjoy family and the spirit of the season. We love each and every one of you. God bless! Elder & Sister Steffler

Fence

Jamestown note wooden pegs.

Spinning

Cotton wool and flax are spun and woven.

Courthouse

E. Steffler gets fined.

Armory

Some of the tools used in foundry.

Dec. 7

What a wild week! First about the photo posted below. Innocent that it looks, beware where it can lead. More about that Monday.

First: Nov. 30, Sunday, no branch meetings (most of the branch members have either gone home or are attending with their families in their home wards) so we went to a family ward. Not use to the crying babies. That didn't take long to forget about! Next, the choir. It sang "For the Beauty of the Earth" that our stake choir had sung a while ago – it is not an easy number, and they only had 20-25 members in the choir, but it sounded wonderful. It was good to attend a family ward again. Had a dinner appointment with the Lewis': roast, red potatoes, green beans and cranberry salad, all very good. The YSA elders also enjoyed the meal, then we had an introduction of sorts meeting and went over what the sisters had told us about their contacts. Sis. Lewis made a blackberry cobbler while we were talking and we enjoyed that afterwards, with a little ice cream.

We are so proud of our family Christmas photo tree; sorry it turned out blurry in the photo. Reprints on regular paper, not so good. But I can sit in my recliner and look at the fam and enjoy everyone.

Dec. 1, Monday. Can't believe it is December! Went on a walk along our "new" path. We walked to the end of it; instead of turning around and walking back, we thought, we will take the road going right and circle around and get back to the car. The path took 30 minutes; the "circle around" took another hour! Have I mention before that there is no grid layout of Greenville? We were both hurting by the time we made it back to the car – ankles, knees, hips, back – you get the picture! For FHE we picked up Tyrei (who had worked all weekend and was happy about that) and had Chic-fil-A for all the members. We also warmed up the leftovers from stake conference. The YSA played games then volleyball.

Tuesday we had a car appointment at 8 a.m., so no walking. E. Steffler went to the Ford dealership and I stayed home to make bread and get started on the laundry. He only took about an hour and I had barely finished showering and dressing. I did get a batch of bread made. Then we were having the carpet cleaned, so we moved the kitchen tables and chairs into the kitchen. Costly day of cleaning corn out of car's fuel and cleaning carpet, but both needed done. And the carpet looks amazingly clean; the car runs better, too.

Wednesday we walked around the apartment complex. Visited Joanna and read Alma 37 with her. Made another batch of bread (my assignment for Saturday was homemade bread and butter). Have you ever tried hot sweet dill pickles? You take dill pickles and chunk them like for sweet pickles, then process them as you would cukes for sweet pickles – only these have some jalapenos sliced in also. They helped the turkey casserole go down, for the second time! Got the car filled up for our trip and went to Institute committee meeting. All we do is talk about our numbers attending and what is for snack afterwards. I volunteered to make a pumpkin roll for next week, as it will be our last institute for the semester. Sister Walker covered D&C 68-74 then read a story from "12 Gifts of Christmas" by Richard Siddoway; she read Violet's story, very touching. Sis. Walker has volunteered her home (dressed to the hilt for Christmas, I have heard) for the last session. Had a nonmember text that she wanted us to teach her the lessons, so maybe we will be "real" missionaries!

Thursday we had a short walk hoping it would help our legs weather the ride to Williamsburg, VA. Got on the road at 9:45, so no early start for us. Pulled into the hotel about 2, got settled then headed for Colonial Williamsburg. We started in the gunsmith and foundry; showed all the handwork involved in making a rifle back in the 17th and 18th centuries. Then the Getty House where we saw what the higher class of people lived like; a few fancy carpets and china and harpsichord. Next was the Courthouse where misdemeanors were tried. E. Steffler played the part of a Presbyterian who was tried because he had not informed the court he was a dissenter from Church of England. Fined 5 shillings or 10 lashings; still had to pay a tithing to the Anglican church for helping the poor and needy. Visited several stores: bindery, milliner, Capitol, where the House of Burgesses (commoners) and Governor and his panel met (separately). Walked a mile back to the car and to supper. Rested then went swimming in the indoor pool; oh, how I have missed being in the water, and sat for a while in the hot tub. Nice after the long trip and walking.

Friday we had breakfast in the motel, not too bad: bacon, scrambled eggs and a muffin and juice. Got lost trying to find Colonial Williamsburg, so went to Visitor Center and rode the bus; much nicer and not as much walking. Got off at the tavern stop – only 4 taverns nearby! Went to the wig shop where you could be measured for a wooden head shaped like yours; then shave your head and cover with a cloth then place the wig. They will even wash and set the wig when it gets dirty. Wigs were made of human hair, yak hair and horse hair. We told them, no thanks! Visited the Raleigh Tavern for a program, "A Georgian Christmas," King George in England and George Washington in America. There was singing, dancing and stories. Visited weaving and spinning shop; she showed how to spin wool and cotton and carded some cotton. Very interesting. Caught the bus and returned to the car. BTW, the decorations on the houses and shops were beautiful; all natural materials used to make wreaths and swags – fruits, nuts, wine corks, anything natural. Drove to Jamestown where we stopped at the Glass House to watch two glass blowers make a pitcher, so we had to buy one like they were making. Then to Historic Jamestown. Watched a short film in the visitor center and had lunch. Walked through the museum where various articles were displayed that have been found in diggings. Walked about the grounds of the original Jamestown and took photos. Very interesting, the history of the place makes one very grateful that God's hand was in the founding of our country. We were very tired, so went to hotel, short swim and hot tub, then watched a movie on TV. A chick flick about Christmas and romance. Lights out at 10. I was surprised we made it that long!

Saturday we were up and on the road by 9 and arrived at the mission office/church 5 minutes to spare for our senior couples activity. Had items for missionaries lined out on a table: bag, colored duct tape, chap stick, white out, pen, sticky note pad, Christmas card from 1st presidency, hot chocolate packet, peppermints, Skittles, Snickers, Hersey chocolates and candy cane. Just before handing them out at special Christmas activity (ours is Dec. 23) they will add a mini loaf of sweet bread and Cuties. The bagging went quickly, only about 1/2 hour. So we started our lunch about 11: 3 kinds of soup, green salad, frog-eye salad, bread and butter, and 3 kinds of dessert. All very yummy. Left around noon to return home. A good little vacation. Stopped to gas up the car for $2.41 a gal.! That's 20 cents cheaper than Greenville. Stopped at the Dismal Swamp rest area and walked the 1/4-mile nature hike, just to keep our legs limbered up. Home about 3 and finished up on some Christmas stuff.

A very busy week, an enjoyable week, even the driving was not too bad. Easy for me to say, since I did not do any of the driving! E. Steffler was tired, though. Almost at our half-way mark. It has been great most of the time. I'm getting a little homesick and missing the fam as we get closer to Christmas. Having their photos on the wall is not helping that, but I enjoy looking at them and praying that all is well back home. Thanks for all the prayers for us. We love all y'all and so does God. Have a blessed Christmas season, and remember, He is the Gift. christmas.mormon.org Great video and reminder. Elder & Sister Steffler

The path

Be aware of unknown paths.

Family Christmas tree

Photos of family units with Nativity in the middle.

November 30

A week in review:

Nov. 23, up early so we could be in New Bern by 8 a.m. to help Bro. Walker set up the luncheon for the single adults. On the road by 7:10 and had to hurry, but we made it! Thanks to GPS. People we already there setting up easels with pictures of children and Christ. The convention center is huge and located along the Neuse River. Long bridge to get over the river and to New Bern, which is sort of located in the middle of the stake. Not really, but enough that the ones in Harker's Island don't have to travel so far, like Kinston. The stake building won't hold all the stake so they rent the convention center. We helped Bro. Walker load trolleys with our paper goods, his coolers and water, a little elevator to reach the upper deck, then through the center to the back patio to set up. It is a lovely view from the patio over the river. The center provided tables, tablecloths and ruffle skirting so that it looked pretty good. He had a large roaster pan full of spicy meatballs and one with BBQ wienies. The RS president had cordoned off 40 seats for the young singles and most of them were filled. Most of the YSA had met at the church and carpooled to New Bern. The Primary chorus sang about 15 minutes of prelude and another song during the meeting. There was a camera on the speaker with blown up pictures on both sides behind him. There was an upper balcony that I did not see, but most of the missionaries sat up there. Pres. and Sis. Baker spoke, then two Primary children, the stake Primary president and Pres. Walker. Good talks, good spirit, good food afterwards. Had sub sandwiches delivered and the singles brought sides and desserts. We helped clean up then headed home. Almost made it, then Tyrei called for a ride from Pres. Lewis' homes to his home. His trailer was locked up tight, so dropped him off at his grandma's. Home to rest!

Monday we found another path to walk behind the park where the YSA have had a few activities. It is paved going along the side and back of the park, then there is a dirt path that goes about a mile. We did not go to the end, because then we would have had to walk all the way back. We need to work up to that, though. It was quiet and peaceful and the temperature was 68! There was high humidity and it rained off and on all day. Had appointment with the cardiologist. She went over the tests that were done; no blockages that she could see. One area of the bottom of the heart was iffy; to be definitive, a catherization would need to be done or she could try some other meds to see if the heart could be stimulated a little more. We opted for the meds and a watch and wait. Next appt is in January. E. Steffler is suppose to cut back on salt and fats. So we ate healthy food at Noodles & Co., then got haircuts. Made a lemon cake for the graduation tomorrow. A bunch of changes at transfers this Wednesday: The YSA will change from sister missionaries to elders, the zone leaders will be training a new missionary, Sis. Jensen will be a sister trainer in Goldsboro, Sis. Evans goes to Virginia Beach and Sis Bowen to New Bridge. We are taking Sis. Harrison (Kinston missionary) to the mission office for training to be a trainer. FHE was writing letters to missionaries; about a dozen YSA showed up; then they played volleyball, of course!

Tuesday wanted to do a workout and soak in hot tub, but the fitness center is closed for repairs and upgrade. So took our swimsuits and towels back to the apartment and just walked. The graduation luncheon we had planned got changed to a brunch because of conference calls, so we all went to ihop for breakfast: Sisters Bowen, Bunker, Evans and Jensen. It worked out OK; E. Steffler still got his steak! Then gave a cake to each set of sisters with a "3" on top to signify their 3 month graduation from being trained. The sisters and elders are switching apartments – the sisters apt was larger and there will be 5 elders living in it. But today presented a problem: 2 beds and 6 sisters! We loaned our 2 air mattresses and Pres. Lewis loaned his air matresses, so everyone got to be comfortable. Supper and correlation with Pres. Lewis. Went over their contacts and info for the new elders. Had shredded beef tacos, yummy. Then filled the car with gas in preparation for Wednesday's trip.

The new electric alarm clock work wonderfully at 4:30 a.m. We had to hustle to be at the car at 5:05, loaded up with 20 mini loaves of sweet bread and bottled water and granola bars and headed to the "new" sisters' apartment. It was the elders apartment until 3:30 yesterday; the Kinston sisters stayed there and we picked up Sis. Harrison to take her to Portsmouth, VA. It rained ALL the way there, 150 miles, mostly in the dark. Not fun, but we got there with 45 min. to kill; better than 15 min. late! Saw some favorite missionaries that have worked in Greenville; fun. Got to listen to transfer meeting and see 25 new missionaries meet their trainers. Took the scenic route down Hwy 13. Had to take the sisters to Kinston; the GPS got us lost – we were traveling out in the middle of a field, according to Miss Naggie! Had to gas up the car again, then head home – beat.

Happy Thanksgiving! Started the day with a nice walk at the senior center. Bought a few items at the grocery store on the way home. The one member we had hoped to feed dinner to bailed because he didn't have gas money. But the new YSA elders were glad to be fed: Elders Bauman and Siddoway. It will be interesting to work with elders instead of sisters. Got to talk with Lena and Deana. DJ and family were involved with a turkey trot in the morning then had dinner with Ed in the afternoon. We had quite a bit of leftovers from our 10# turkey.

Friday up and walking, then district meeting. Met the zone leaders during our walk; they were headed to Kinston's district meeting. Took chocolate chip banana bars wrapped individually and told the missionaries they were not to eat it until they were in their apts. Trying to be strictly obedient. Started without the sisters; the G2 sisters were involved in a wreck Tuesday and are without a car, so the G1 sisters had to pick them up. They came in during the opening song; it sounded much better with the sisters singing also! Introduced new missionaries: Sister Fife, Elders Ballentyne, Bauman and Siddoway. Introduced The First Gift and given Christmas passalong cards. After a nap, went shopping for a care package for Kierra Spruill; got it mailed and boughnt boxes and stamps for mailing. G1 sisters returned the air matresses and chatted for about half an hour. Then YSA elders came to get deep fat fryer we were not using. Then G1 elders came by to introduce us to their greenie, E. Collier; fed them some ice cream. Dan talked to Eliza and Ed; wonderful talking with family.

Saturday walked at the senior center again. Saw the farmers market was open, so stopped by and bought a few things. I put up the family Christmas tree: family pictures with Nativity picture in the middle. Still need to get hanger hooks to hand some small ornaments on the garland. Also got a swag to hang on the door, instead of a wreath that cost $35! We had printed the family pictures that were taken last Christmas. Got a call from G1 sisters; they needed to visit some members in Ayden and didn't have the miles, so could we take them? Sure; no one was home, so we went to Sweet Frog for yogurt. About 8:30 we got a call from the G1 sisters; could they come talk and receive some counsel? Hopefully what we said helped them. Elder Steffler led out with experiences and gave them each a blessing. Have I ever said that missions are hard?

Our mission is not quite as hard as it is for the young sisters. We are use to each other and have an eternal love for each other. That really helps! We try to do what we can to help out. And we make sure to get in a nap every day. That really helps.

We love our family and have enjoyed talking with each of them this week. Lena and family were going to Salt Lake to see the temple lights. Hopefully that was a worthwhile trip. Deana's husband, Ken, is home recuperating from hip surgery. Eliza and family stayed home and fixed dinner. I'm sure Nate and family were with Grandma Bell, maybe in Jordan Valley, if the snow is not too bad. So our family is learning to get along without us. And we weathered the holiday, too. Our weather has been cold a few days, but has started to warm up. The usual temps are mid 40s to mid 60s, so not too bad. But we did have a couple of mornings in the 20s, really cold for here! Hope this finds all well. We love you and pray for you. God bless you. Elder & Sister Steffler

Walking path

We walk this path two or three times a week. It is not all like this but the pavement allows us to walk when it is rainy.

New Bern

Stake conference at Riverfront convention center.

November 23

This blog writing seems to come around quite regular like. But it is a new week, and Thanksgiving to look forward to! Hope all y'all have some family to feel blessed with during this time. I am trying to get some of the YSA to come eat with us that don't have anywhere else to go. Now, a look back at the week.

Sunday was a regular Sunday with branch council, etc. The most we talked about was what Sundays to not hold branch meetings! Definitely not the Sunday after Thanksgiving, but then do we meet the Sunday before Christmas or after? Finally decided to meet the Sunday after so students can have Christmas programs in their own wards. Then to decide what Sunday we will have our Christmas program. After all, the choir is practicing a Christmas song! Looks like it's the 14th; we are running out of Sundays this year! Our new elders quorum presidency talked about testimony and conversion; Sunday School about Jeremiah and RS with treats and lesson. Spent a pleasant Sunday afternoon studying scriptures and napping. Then a call that one of the sisters is sick; she has diabetes and is sleeping and not eating and coughing a lot. Called Sis. Baker who said to wake her up to eat and check blood levels and if we have any home remedies for cough to take to to her. So gathered up the Vicks, herbal tea, honey, lemon, cough drops and headed to her apt. Her fever was down, but blood levels were low so she was trying to eat. Drizzly rain so put on our warm winter coats. Called Deana to see how she is doing. They are having an early Thanksgiving because Ken goes in for hip surgery the day before.

Monday we discovered a new place to walk. There is a path behind the senior center, about 1 1/4 mile long and takes about 30 min. Saw several college-aged students walking dogs and asked if it was a class. Yes, an exercise class, so they walk dogs from the animal shelter across the road. Good idea. Made a batch of pumpkin bread and washed some laundry while E. Steffler scrubbed the tubs and vacuumed. Went shopping at Lowe's for a thermometer so we know how cold it is in the apt. We are always arguing over it being too hot or too cold. Now we have proof! Since it has been chilly for a couple of days, I decided I needed a couple more warm, long skirts but then also found a nice sweater at dressbarn. Didn't need them today, because it got to 75 degrees! For FHE we played human battleship. Not E. Steffler and I personally, you understand, but the YSA. Had a nice talk with DJ and got caught up with his doings.

Tuesday did our workout; another chilly day. Sure feels like winter today. I try not to complain, since I heard about the single digit temps back home and the 4-6 ft of snow in New York. G1 sisters taught us about prophets and priesthood. We were getting ready to go to the health clinic to get another blood draw for E. Steffler, when we got a call from the G1 elders. One of them was sick and asked if we could take them to their doc-in-the-box. They were rear-ended couple of weeks ago and are without a car, so we said of course. Took about 3 hours, but finally got done; he has upper respiratory infection, then to get Rx. Dropped them off and headed to health clinic for the blood draw. On the way home, another call from the elders; they only got one Rx and were suppose to get two, could we take them again? Of course. Had a dinner invite to eat at a restaurant as a fund-raiser. Had a potato and soup. Had calls from Nate and Lena. Nate needed our address so he can send his family's Christmas photo. Lena told ;us what had been done to the hot tub. Good to talk with family.

Wednesday walked at senior center again. Temp was in the 20s, but no wind this time. Dropped off the Ensign to Joanna, since she and one of her boys were sick and we couldn't read with her. Made a batch of banana-zucchini bread and was about to start a meatloaf, but the other senior couple from Washington (they were doing apt inspections in Greenville) was finishing up and we were going to lunch. Went to Rucker Johns; I had a huge plate of nachos and E. Steffler had the lunch special; I think mine was better! Training sisters returned our air mattresses they had borrowed while they were in Greenville. I say ours but it is the mission's and just stays here so we can keep track of it. They borrowed our scales so they can weigh one of the sisters luggage in preparation to her going home. YSA sisters came for their last lesson on temples and eternal marriage. Sis. Evans is so ready to graduate! Picked up Tyrei for institute and dropped off a stake conference flyer. Lonnie had photos that Stevon had developed, so we put them up in the display case. Checked out the available paper products in the closet and gathered enough for about 100 for stake conference. Watched YSA play volleyball after institute until 9:30 then took Tyrei home.

Thursday was workout and saw that the hot tub was covered, and yes! it was heated. Didn't have our suits with us, so will wait until next time. Got some of our potentials list organized and tried to visit about 10 of them in one apt complex, but they had all moved. Someone at every door, but not interested, except one; she accepted a passalong card. Finally made the meatloaf I was planning yesterday and invited the YSA sisters to help us eat it. Also put in some potatoes to bake and warmed up some veggies. Not a very successful meal, but we chatted for half an hour or so and one of the sisters asked for a blessing, which E. Steffler was glad to provide. Have I said that missions are hard! Especially for the young missionaries with their rules and regulations.

Friday we walked again, but just around the apt complex. Gave my gloves away to a young girls who was waiting for her bus and didn't have gloves. That made me feel good. District meeting focused on the power of conversion; testimony vs conversion. Testimony is a strong belief and conversion is a change of heart, no desire to do evil. Made the announcement that I was not providing treats after meeting any more, trying to be more obedient to the rule that says missionaries are to return to their areas immediately after meeting. Had some sad missionaries. Decided to write a form letter to our missionaries from home: 17 in all, 10 on foreign missions and 7 state side. Took much longer addressing the envelopes that printing the letter. Had an appt at 8:30 with the YSA sisters to teach Luis, a new convert who was taught in Spanish, is taking English classes and wants the new member lessons in English. He attend the community college for 5 hours every day to learn English! Then works late every night with his family. Restoration ended up talking about baptism for the dead and he wants to do family history research, so the sisters are going to teach him Sunday at the family history room at church.

Saturday was a workout and HOT TUB! Wonderful. Decided to go to Tarboro where one of the members is holding a yard sale. It is about 45 min drive. It was at a friend's house; Lonnie lives another 26 miles further. We bought about $10 worth of items and he only charged us $6 because we are missionaries! Got home and made a double batch of brownies for Stake Conference tomorrow and a half batch of banana chocolate chip muffins. Filled my last two mini bread tins for the missionaries. Got 20 in the freezer now! G1 elders begged a ride to the Saturday night session of stake conference in Kinston, so picked them up and then picked up Tyrei: 3 young men over 6 ft. tall in the back of our little Ford Fusion! We got to Kinston early enough to get a burger at Wendy's. But by then the chapel was full and we sat on the second row of hard chairs. Had a great turn out; filled the chapel and cultural hall. Theme was temples and family history. Had four people who had not done any family history previously go out with three family history consultants and after 20 minutes they had 40 names temple ready! One sister got 26 names! Stake presidency and temple president and his wife spoke. Really good evening.

Have come to the end of another week. They are going by so quickly. Tomorrow will talk to the cardiologist about all the tests that have been done on E. Steffler. Looking forward to getting that behind us. Hope all is well on the home front. Hope y'all are staying warm. Had a couple of artic blasts, yes? We have felt the effects here, even. I am loving my warm winter coat that I was sure I would never need! We love all of you. God loves all of you, too, and that makes all the difference. Sister & Elder Steffler

With sister Jones

Had farewell lunch with one of our favorite former sister missionaries.

November 16

It's official: 8 months on the mission. Somehow, I don't feel qualified yet as a "real" missionary.

Sunday, Nov. 9 was a "regular" Sunday: branch council at 9:30 a.m., choir practice at 10:30, church at 11. Got a new branch clerk and he spoke in sacrament meeting. No break the fast in December because the Christmas Party is the next evening. Finished Isaiah in Sunday School. Read the wrong lesson for Relief Society; it was the next one. We snacked when we got home from church then went to a dinner appointment. YSA sisters plus another couple from the ward was there to eat stuffed manicotti, frog-eye salad, Italian bread and blondies and carrot cake for dessert. Had good food, good company and good discussion. Sisters had a lesson on the atonement that touched all of us. Got a call from DJ and his girls when we got home. They sang "I Hope They Call Me on a Mission." It was touching and cute. Sisters got a home member lesson (meaning teaching a nonmember in a member's home). They are the best! The investigator can feel the spirit in the home which opens them to receiving the spirit into their lives.

Monday, since Dan was not working out because of his test later, I decided to try the pool one more time. It was about as cold as last time, only the recycled water coming into the pool was not as warm. The maintenance guys were in their shop, so we chatted with them a few minutes and asked about the "heated" pool. Was told that if it gets too cold, the heat pump stops because it can't keep up. So officially, the pool is NOT heated! Made another batch of bread; now have enough to take a loaf to each apartment that we will inspect Tuesday. Took a little lunch with us to Dan's appointment. The stress test was to take 3-4 hours. So I was all set for the long-term, in the car texting and eating my lunch, when Dan knocks on the window of the car. He is all done and it has not taken 2 hours! I don't know what that means; maybe that all the technicians just wanted to go home for the day! He said the test was not that bad – no fainting or dying on the tread mill. I had to drive home, but that was OK. FHE that evening was at the ice skating rink. Had about 25 YSA and 10 others show up. Took some photos and helped eat pizza. Jessica was one of the more experienced skaters; Roc was a true beginner, but he was trying! I was surprised at the number of first time skaters.

Tuesday was Veteran's Day. Fitness Center was busy and no soaking in the cold hot tub, either. Had the G1 sisters for a practice lesson on Word of Wisdom. I was drinking my cup of "coffee" and asking if they wanted some. They finally convinced me to give up my coffee and E. Steffler not to drink wine with his meals anymore. They said it might be hard, but if I go about it with a positive "can-do" attitude, it would be easier. Did missionary apartment checks in Kinston in the afternoon. Had five to check; the first 4 stayed pretty much on time, but the last one took 25 minutes just to get there! One of the five ovens was clean; encouraged the others to get 'em cleaned! Also did a furniture inventory and some of it was very creative. Like the chair whose bottom was gone so the elders took cardboard and duct taped it onto the chair. Or the computer chair with a broken back that was held in place by a bike chain. Glad we were able to do the inspections in one day. When we got home it took about an hour to make copies and get everything in 3 piles: one for me, one for the stake high counselor over missionaries and one for the mission office elder over housing. Had a nice talk with Eliza; love talking to family!

Wednesday was warmer than usual because it had rained during the night, so the humidity was about 100%. Temp rose to 77 degrees during the day! YSA sisters had a lesson on how to better teach members. Read a scripture and asked how it affected us and who we thought of. I thought of my family and the love I have for each child and grandchild and how each is living the gospel. The Spirit touched each of us; we are so blessed to recognize the spirit in our lives. The Lilywhites, senior couple from Washington visited with us for an hour or so about what we do and how to do apt inspections. Then we read Jeremiah for Sunday School. What a prophet; what a life he lead. Then rushed to the post office before it closed to mail the apt inspections to mission office. Then shopped at Sam's and Harris Teaters before institute. Sister Walker was back to teach after being gone for 3 weeks. Had a short meeting afterwards about stake conference and inviting all the YSA to attend. Even had a luncheon planned after. Called Teezha to sing happy birthday to her, but she was so wound up she could barely talk (she had not opened her presents yet).

Thursday I wanted to swim really badly, but talked myself out of it; did a workout instead. Decided to make pumpkin bread and a batch of bread when our appointment was canceled. So then we laid around waiting her to call after she returned home, but she didn't get home until the kids walked in the door; no lesson today. It was drizzly rain so we didn't want to go out hunting, so we laid around the apt the rest of the day. Watched the rest of women's conference and some BOM and Jeremiah. I got the Christmas presents divided up into families, and that was pretty much it. Felt like a slug; not a good feeling!

Walked in the cold with a little breeze and decided I needed to get my winter stuff lined up. Took pineapple, chips, salsa, Triscuits and canned cheese to district meeting. Focus was on feeling and identifying the spirit. Read scriptures and page 96 from Preach My Gospel and shared experiences. Lots of warm feelings of the spirit were shared. Elder Steffler told of his experience on his way home from his mission in South Africa and touring for 2 weeks. He was in Jerusalem for 2 days with 3 other missionaries and they got to visit the garden tomb. One missionary walked into the tomb and sat down on the ledge and said, huh, this is where Jesus laid. Elder Steffler could not even go inside because to him it was sacred ground. After the meeting and snacks, we laid around waiting for our member sister to call so we could read BOM together. I looked at my phone (that I had turned off during meeting) and she had called at 1 and I had not checked after meeting. I was pretty bummed. Sisters came by to ask if we knew a guy who would be willing to take a new investigator to a baptism of a child of record. We made a suggestion, and it turned out well for both of them! Had an appointment at 5, but he was a no show. Had breakfast for supper; yum. Had to put my liner in my winter coat; it felt really good!

Saturday I was glad we were not walking, because it was 29 degrees. Yeah, I know, that is warm considering –2! It did warm up to 46, though, and that felt balmy. We had a lunch appointment in Washington at noon and at 10:50 I saw a text from the elders' quorum president saying brownies would be great for their activity at 3! He had texted after we had gone to bed; I have to learn to check my phone more often. I hurriedly made a double batch of brownies in my large cookie sheet and in 30 minutes they were done and we took off. Got into Washington just a noon, so we made good time. Had lunch with a former sister who is going home in 10 days (also took her a loaf of bread) and her two companions, plus the senior couple in Washington. Had a cozy 7 at the table for lunch. She and another sister are training a new missionary. Elders' quorum pres was panicking about the hot dogs and cooker, so we told him we would take care of it. Picked up Tyrei for the elders' turkey bowl (flag football, sort of) and cooked hot dogs. Put them in a small cooler (?) to keep them warm and watched them play football. Guys just have a good time running around chasing a ball! Some of the guys were staying with a branch member who lived in town so they could make it to church Sunday. That is a big step! After we got home and were relaxing, got a call from G1 sisters; one of them was sick and requesting a blessing. So we called the G1 elders to help E. Steffler give the blessing. She was running a temperature and is diabetic, which is not a good combination. Made her call Sis. Baker to let her know the circumstances. She had been insistent that she didn't need to before. I got my mother hen hat on and said I would call her then. So the sister relented and called. We did not leave until she had called! Her companion had spent the day cooking up a storm, trying to make something that her companion might want to eat. (p.s., the temp was down Sunday morning, but they were instructed not to go to church by Sis. Baker.)

So many things have kept us busy this week; quite a variety, from tests to blessings and feeling the spirit. We love this work! We don't find out about E. Steffler's results until the 24th. So keep us in your prayers and hope for the best, which will happen, regardless. We have a YSA with a mission call to Sacramento, reporting to MTC Dec. 17; wanted to go to her temple session, but it was full (you have to make reservations), so we were able to serve the elders quorum. Always somewhere to serve if you look.

Happy birthday to Elinore, on Saturday, we love you! All of you keep on keepin' on; we love y'all. Letters would be appreciated, too! Love, Elder & Sister Steffler

 

Ice skating

Jessica helps Roc ice skate.

November 9

Another week gone by and winter is settling in; at least cold weather is!

On our walk Nov. 3 we saw frost on windshields of cars not under the shade, and on the rooftops. I wore a long sleeved shirt and hoodie and jeans. The walk did warm me up some. When we returned the laundered tablecloths from break the fast, we inventoried the YSA closet to see what paper goods we needed to buy. Then to Sam's to buy the needed items, plus a few things for us. The church building was being used as a voting precinct Tuesday and they set up on Monday, so did not return with the paper goods. Invited the zone leaders for warm bread and hamburger stew because they are not completely moved yet. They enjoyed the bread and honey butter. FHE was in the dark at the park playing some game. We couldn't even see who was there, so we went home. One of our member sisters got her mission call to Sacramento and enters the MTC Dec. 17! She is so ready.

Tuesday was warmer; suppose to be a couple of days in the 70s. G1 sisters came early for their practice lesson because E. Steffler had a echo cardiogram scheduled at noon. The technician said it did not look like his heart was enlarged. Zone leaders came by to borrow some wrenches to unhook the washer and dryer at their old apt. Some members were helping with pickups to load the bigger items. Had correlation meeting at Pres. Lewis' home; had to plan for Luis' baptism, so Spanish elders were there too. Luis wants me to give a talk! Sis. Lewis fed all of us spaghetti with baclava for dessert. Yummy.

Water aerobics on Wednesday was a bit on the too cold side – but I persevered! E. Steffler got in for about 30 seconds. He is convinced they had turned off the heat, but it had been 30 degrees not long ago. The YSA sisters came for a practice lesson on Word of Wisdom. So I met them with a coffee mug in hand and invited them to try some. Continued to sip from it through the lesson until it came time to announce that I could not drink coffee anymore. Their arguments were very convincing: how it frees us from unhealthy habits. They left us with about 3-4 pages of potential contacts to follow up with; some from 2012! Had a meeting with Bro. Paries, stake high councilman over missionaries. He wants us to check missionary apartments in Kinston and Woodington instead of Greenville. One of the members of the branch taught institute and it was not the right lesson! He taught the lesson he had prepared and it went over fine. Got an invite to dinner Sunday at the Paries. Talked with Deana and she had advanced to soft foods, so she is starting to heal.

Thursday I made a pumpkin sheet cake from scratch for zone meeting tomorrow. Read with Joanna, Alma 5. She had made a carrot-pineapple cake with cream cheese frosting and pecans to decorate. To die for. Started working on the potentials list and right off the bat, no addresses; it had the name of apt complexes and we didn't know where they were, so came home to look up on the computer. So now we are ready to try again. Zone leaders needed some help changing the plug-in for their dryer so E. Steffler offered his advice while one of the elders wrestled behind the dryer almost in the dark. Then they finished cleaning their old apt and we helped do a final inspection; not real clean, but they were determined to finish and turn in the key.

Since the pool was so cold, we did a workout and soak in the hot tub, only it was more like a lukewarm tub! I think they turned off all the heat. Zone meeting centered around conversion. We read scriptures that identified what was needful for conversion: faith, action, change of heart, scriptures, then had a testimony meet of sorts. Some volunteered and some were asked by the zone leaders to bear testimony. E. Steffler and I were asked to bear testimony on the plan of salvation and yes, we both got teary eyed. There was a beautiful spirit there. Sis. Robinson the picture lady was there to take photos of all the missionaries. She brought brownies and I took the pumpkin cake with cream cheese frosting. The sisters from Kinston had low tires (according to their car computer) and E. Steffler hauled out our trusty little air compressor. Then we took them to lunch at Panera. Spent the evening getting ready for tomorrow's baptism: cutting up fruit and thinking about how to present a talk on baptism to someone with limited English usage.

Had to hustle to get to the church by 9:30 so I could plate the fruit and banana-zucchini bars and banana chocolate chip muffins. Sent E. Steffler to buy milk; some of the sisters from another ward brought cookies, too. The baptism was simple and short. I took about 3 minutes. One of the branch members game a talk on the Holy Ghost in Spanish and one of the brethren baptized him in Spanish. His mom and brother attended, both nonmembers. They were touched by the spirit. I had found "I am a child of God" in Spanish and we sang it for the closing song. That afternoon we got prepared for the apartment inspections next week, making copies and making sure we had all of the proper papers. Read in the prophet's manual lesson #20, hoping that was the correct lesson (it wasn't). Finished watching all the sessions of conference; now just the women's conference to watch. So we are getting lots of reading done for Sunday School, Institute, Book of Mormon and conferences. We are learning so much.

Want to get through Dan's nuclear stress test on Monday; that has been on the back burner for 10 days now. Hoping and praying for the best, but will accept whatever the results. God's ways are not always our ways, but we have hope that we can finish our mission. Deana got the splints out of her nose, so she is doing much better; maybe even went to work Friday!

Hope all is well with everyone. We love all y'all. God lives and loves each of us and knows us by name; His arms are outstretched to us; we only have to reach out to Him and He will help us. This I know. We thank you for praying for us. Elder & Sister Steffler

November 2

Late again; sorry. Good excuse this time: let a member use computer while we waited for CES fireside, which begins at 8 p.m. here in the east!

Pres. Lewis was gone last Sunday; he had a 25 year reunion with some of his medical friends in D.C. So after branch council, sent Elder Steffler to pick up Tyrei and I practiced with the choir, because we got to sing. We sang "Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing" and didn't do too badly, considering we don't have a pianist and asked someone from another ward to come play. We ran through it a couple of times with him. Found out one of the young women who had been to sacrament meeting several times was not a member. Her grandmother is and has been for years. The grandmother attended with her granddaughter and they stayed for all 3 meetings. So the sisters were all over that! They got a home lesson with her that afternoon (a lesson taught in a member's home to an investigator). They were so happy. During third hour one of the counselors explained the ins and outs of the media splits on this upcoming Saturday. A lot of the young singles were signed up with either our sisters or elders in the other wards. There are 14 missionaries here in Greenville and splits were to begin at 7:30 a.m. and end at 9 p.m. They were to show what a missionary does throughout his/her day. I hope some of you got to see some of the photos I posted Saturday. Warmed up some leftovers for dinner and finished off the pumpkin pie that we bought on Saturday. Walked to a member's apartment here in our complex and took her a loaf of bread; she was not home, but I left it with a sticky note saying who it was from. Sorry to have missed her. Then we read all of the institute lesson we have to teach Wednesday.

Monday was D.J.'s birthday; hope it was a good one for him. Dan got the car's motor oil and transmission oil changed (that was expensive!) while I made bread and cleaned the apt. He made hamburger stew for FHE later that evening. It was a costume party and there were some pretty good ones. I posted one on facebook of a group. Of course there was food: 4 kinds of soup with rolls and bread and doughnuts and cookies, etc. Had a good talk with Lena and Eliza. Sure is nice to talk to family.

Tuesday we braved the water yet again for a water aerobics session. It's not cold until you get out! The training sister was sick so there was no practice lesson. So we went to the clinic for a recheck on Elder Steffler. Only waited 1 1/2 hours to see the PA. Dan had lost 9 lbs with the water pill he is taking and she was encouraged with that. I asked for an explanation of the blood work that was done and why he was taken off all NSAIDS. Well, turns out he is in stage 3 of kidney failure, which sounds really scary, but she wants to get the heart problem (water retention) figured out before jumping into the renal problem. Evidently the kidneys filter the leftover products from the NSAIDS, so that was why he was taken off. He has popped pain pills for years, and now it is taking its toll. We hashed through the institute lesson on who was teaching what and when. Made a couple of copies of things to hand out. The lesson focused on True Disciples and the reading was about the law of consecration. Had a hard time putting the reading with the lesson; came to the conclusion that they don't really have to be compatible! Had correlation at Pres. Lewis' house and finalized the media splits and talked about some inactives. Always trying to reach out to those who are hiding out!

We were tired out from our walk Wednesday. I think we are both a little worried about his health and that institute lesson. YSA sisters came for a practice lesson and lunch. Went over the Gospel lesson just as a refresher. Had appt with Dr. Peterson the cardiologist. The nurse did a thorough triage and EKG. She said it look good. Dr. Peterson wants an echocardiogram done and a nuclear stress test, so two more appts to find out if anything is wrong or if he just has water retention. Even with handouts and a board diagram, we did not feel good about the lesson at institute. The area director was there, and that did not help. We were feeling pretty down. But when we got home, here was our door with sticky notes all over, expressing love and encouragement. What a blessing those two sister missionaries were to us that night!

Thursday, no time for exercise as we had to leave to pick up the G2 sister missionaries and go to Kinston for district meeting and interviews with Pres. Baker (mission president). We were early, but most of the other missionaries were there, too. Talked about the importance of prayer and how and why we pray. Did a role play of introducing the Restoration with a couple of elders; interesting. They jumped right in and we were more reserved in our approach. For lunch, took the G2 sisters to Wendy's, where the four sisters from our complex also showed up. So we bought their lunch, also! Another customer (older lady) gave E. Steffler a bad time about having all those young girls with him. He got a chuckle out of it! Our interview didn't happen until 4 p.m., so we napped in the car, then read the next commentary lesson in the D&C. When it was our turn, we told the president about Dan's health issues and he was a little stern saying he needs to be informed of situations like that. Then he explained he was talking to a group of high priests on Sunday about senior couples serving missions. He wanted to make a video of him interviewing us about why we came on our mission, what was it like, are we having fun, do we miss our children and grandchildren, what did we have to do to prepare, etc. I would like to get a copy of it and see how it came across. I was glad I wore my blazer/jacket because it was cool and I look more like a missionary in it. After dropping off the sisters at their apartment, we went to Walmart and bought 2 turkeys to cook for break the fast. Took one of the turkeys to the R.S. president who volunteered to cook it. A tender mercy of the Lord that we were able to find her house in the dark!

Braved the water another time on Friday. A small breeze did not warm us up! Spent all day thawing out the turkey in a sinkful of cold water. Deana sent us a picture of her going home after surgery; she looked pretty awful. But she said the surgery went well. Hopefully that helps with her breathing problems and other assorted problems. We wanted to walk through the apt that the G1 elders are moving into (it is in our apt complex) so called to see if it was ready. No call back, so we walked to the office (there was a light refreshment party provided by the complex, so we had to have some) then one of the office workers took us to the apt on his battery-driven golf cart. It looked good; carpets had been cleaned 2 days before so there was still a slight smell of cleaning leftover. It is upstairs, which would be a problem for us but not for them. There is a small balcony where they can park their bikes if they want to. They are so excited to more out of their run-down apt that is too small. Plus there is a weight machine that takes up 1/4 of living room that E. Steffler helped them take apart so they could haul it to the dumpster. Took G2 and Spanish elders to 5 Guys then to Sweet Frog. We had not treated them for quite awhile and they enjoyed it. Let G1 elders borrow our 2 air mattresses because they did not get their mattresses moved over to their new apt.

Saturday was on the computer on and off all day reposting photos of missionaries. Got to see photos of all the missionaries in Greenville plus 4 other missionaries who have transferred out. It was great! The weather was cold; I had to break out my winter coat because my sweater just didn't cut the wind. No trick or treaters showed up yesterday, so I have a bag of candy that I'm taking to break the fast tomorrow; I'm not having that candy sitting around here! Got the turkey cooked. Had lots of juice from turkey and water from cooking the giblets to make gravy. Everything in the fridge awaiting tomorrow's feast.

Daylight savings time ended so got to sleep in. My body did not get the memo; I was awake at 4:30! It thought it meant an hour early, I guess! E. Steffler took full advantage of the extra hour of sleep. It took 4 trips to the car to haul everything we needed to take. Crockpot of instant potatoes, large pan of gravy,large veggie tray, bag of all the other stuff plus our regular scriptures and binder. Had to pick up Tyrei and Christian, his 11 year old brother came along. He helped us set up for the meal; good help. E. Steffler bore his testimony about our mission and the interview and media split. We truly have been blessed. Had to make Stove Top dressing, warm up corn, potatoes, gravy. Had 6 pies, and they did not all get eaten. Most of the turkey, all the potatoes (two crockpots full) most of the dressing and salad got eaten. Young adults know how to eat! Had the vacuum up the mess that the pies made; who would have known?! Took Christian home, and Tyrei back to our apt to await CES fireside. He seemed to enjoy reading Alma 2, about the fight with Lamanite and Amlicites. Watched conference talk on paths by Pres. Monson. Then went to the Lewis' for fireside. Bro. Hallstrom gave an excellent talk on building on firm foundation, with photos of the Pittsburgh PA temple. They dug down 30 feet to granite bedrock then drilled 150 feet into the rock for the rebar. Now that is a firm foundation! Likened it to how firm is our foundation in the gospel and our testimony of God our Father, Jesus Christ and the Holy Ghost. Truly worth staying up late for.

Another week before us, not as crazy as last week, I hope. Anxiously awaiting the echo on Tues and stress test next Monday. Don't have to teach institute this week, which is a blessing, although that made us search deeper into the lesson to find its meaning, and that is never a waste of time. Have enjoyed our study of D&C and Isaiah. I just hope and pray that when we get home we can continue our study of the scriptures; what a blessing in our lives. God bless all of you this week and always. Love all y'all, Elder and Sister Steffler

Sticky notes

Sister missionaries showed their love and support by sticky noting our door.

October 26

It is a beautiful autumn day here in North Carolina – low of 55 and high of 77. I love 70s. They make me happy!

Branch council as per usual on Oct. 19. Got a call from Tyrei to pick him up. A member was already at church who did not have to go to council meeting, so he said he would pick him up. It was wonderful to sit through the entire meeting. Our branch clerk and family are moving to Park City, Utah, for a job, so he talked in sacrament meeting, along with a couple of sisters. Good meeting. The young single adults here are very spiritual and give good talks. Isaiah focused on what Christ has done for us. Relief Society was have a cookie and pick something to read, which is always nice. Had breakfast for lunch and Elder Steffler did most of the cooking (link sausage and eggs) while I made pancakes. We get kind of lazy on Sundays! Read D&C 42 and commentary, as well as watched a couple of talks from general conference.

Monday we had to let the sisters into the family history at church so they could do their emails. Someone had misplaced (?) the key, so our bit of service there. Then went to Great Clips and got hair cuts; mine just a trip, E. Steffler, really short. Had some grocery shopping to do and drop a suit off at the cleaners. We wanted to get our flu shots, so we spent a couple of hours going from one drug store to another. The first was not certified for Blue Cross, go 3 miles to the other, they can do it. That one did not have the high dosage we wanted, but across the road did. At that one, we would have to pay because our insurance would not. To solve the problem, we went to Rucker Johns for lunch! It was good but expensive. I called Blue Cross and they said we could pay for the shots and mail in receipt and be reimbursed or we could go to a clinic 70 miles away. What a run around! Bought some cleaning supplies for the elders who are moving and have to clean their apartment; also gave them some cookies to help. Had a good talk with Eliza; got all caught up of her family's doings. E. Steffler likes to call his brother on Mondays and they can gab for an hour or so. FHE was a mystery game played in the dark (who dun it); we did not play.

Tuesday was water aerobics. The water is cooling off, but not as cold as I expected. Don't know how much longer I can convince E. Steffler to get in the water! Made banana chocolate chip muffins to use up over ripe bananas. Had G1 sisters for practice and lunch. E. Steffler had made hamburger stew and it was too salty, so used up the last of potatoes to fix it. We were members and the sisters invited us to do missionary work. They weren't pushy at all and we told them they could be more bold in the invitation. We showed them the video the church put out about the temple garments; it is presented very well, and quite an eye opener. We decided to pay for our flu shots so back to the drug store that had high dosage. E. Steffler's insurance paid for his and mine cost $54.99. Was told if I took in my Medicare card, I would be reimbursed. E. Steffler decided he needed to see the doctor about his swollen ankles. The clinic was not very crowded and he was taken back in about 10 minutes. I waited and waited. After about an hour a nurse came and got me and took me back to the exam room where he was waiting. They suspected congestive heart failure, but may just be water retention. Had done a chest w-ray, EKG and drew blood. An appt will be made with a cardiologist, just to be sure; recheck in one week. He should have dropped 10-15 lbs of fluid by then. Had missionary correlation and had a good discussion on inactives. Went to Noodles & Co., for supper.

Had a brisk walk on Wed. I even wore my long-sleeved shirt and wished I had put on my hoodie. Got a phone call from Sister Walker, institute teacher. He dad was in the hospital, not doing well, could we teach institute for her. What could we say? So I downloaded the lesson; thank the Lord we had already read it and the commentary (thanks, Kim!) so just followed some of the ideas and put together something. The YSA sisters came for a practice and lunch. They wanted us to be "hard" on them when they taught the Book of Mormon. We were tough (even mad at each other because I had burned the stew) and they still taught a beautiful lesson. E. Steffler had taken his first water pill and had to be excused several time (which I played up with my bad mood). I really had burned the stew, so it was easy to play act. After lunch, we got down to the nitty gritty of outlining a lesson. E. Steffler wanted to talk a bit about his ancestor Daniel Allen Jr. who had lived through that era, so he introduced the lesson. I gave the bulk of the lesson, with chocolates to encourage participation. (Bribery works!) He finished up with an experience from his mission about how priesthood blessings helped a sister get her face operated on and go to the London Temple to do temple work. The spirit was testifying of what we had taught was true; it is a blessing to feel it.

After our workout in the fitness center and a brief dip in the hot tub, we had to hurry and shower and dress because the G1 elders came to give E. Steffler a blessing. He had not slept very well, just worried about what was happening and what may happen. After the blessing, we showed the temple garment video to them and they were impressed. Then off to Joanna's to read from the BOM. She had read a lot further than we had; she had been sick a couple of days, so got a lot of reading done. She wondered about baptism before Christ, so we read in the Bible Dictionary, which explained it very well. Back to the apt to get ready to take the YSA sisters to New Bern to hunt up some young singles. The R.S. president took the sisters and we split the list with them. We talked with a nephew, a YSA, a mother and a did who referred us to grandparents where their YSA daughter was living. The sisters had about the same success as we did, but we left invitations at all the places. The last name we tried to find, the address took us to a tatoo parlor! On the way home I talked with Lena about a project we want for the Bakers (mission president & wife).

The water was still tolerable for water aerobics on Friday (don't ask E. Steffler!). Getting out of the pool was much colder. District meeting was on prayer again. The missionaries practiced with each other in extending the invitation to pray. Talked about why it is so important that we pray. We had pretzels (two flavors) with honeydew melon for a treat. E. Steffler had to leave about three times during the meeting. Mornings are worse. Went to Best Buy to get a suction cup for the Garmin. I think I may have thrown away (accidentally!) the one that kept falling off the window. Then to Sam's for groceries and a hot dog for lunch; Walgreens to get reimbursed for flu shot. Medicare says insurance should pay and vice versa. So I just mailed the receipt to insurance. Sister Walker sent a text that she may need to be gone for an extended time (one or two more weeks) and could we teach again? Sure. So downloaded the next lesson and some ideas on how to go about it. Got a call from Deana, she was on her way to Nampa to see her chillins. She is also having nose surgery on the 31st. The same operation that E. Steffler had a couple of years ago, just before my mom died. His nose was still packed at the funeral. The water pills are not bringing down his weight like the doctor had hoped, but his pants and shirts don't seem as tight as they were.

Saturday had a good walk; chilly but no wind. Made bread first thing and E. Steffler put a pork roast in the crock pot for supper. Went shopping to Walmart – yes an emergency because Sam's does not have turkeys for sale yet. Checked out other prices for the sign up sheet for break the fast: we are have a turkey feast! Got all of Isaiah read for Sunday's lesson and all of Mosiah read. Got a card from Maike! Love getting mail, especially the good news she had. She is at university in Dresden and had attended church, an LDS church. It reminded her of when she went to church with us. She spoke with the missionaries afterwards and thought about us on our mission. It was so precious! Thank you, Maike. I called some kids who had signed up for activities at the fall fest at Pitt college; got one who is interested in attending Monday and one who would like to but has a class on Mondays. We are having a costume party for FHE Monday. I told E. Steffler we were going to wear a costume: missionary!

Well, we had a busy week, an eventful week. Will let you know next week how E. Steffler fares at the cardiologist. Just hope it is something we can take care of here and not have to go home. We invited all to pray that we can stay and finish our mission. We feel like we are just learning about what we should be doing. We love our ward family and our kids and grandkids; thanks for reading and caring about us. Love, Elder and Sister Steffler